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after writing this post, i think i'm not going to be able to sleep
Thursday, November 10, 2011 || 11:45 PM
I mean people say that it's better to just treat people you hate like crap than talk rotten about them behind their back right? I somehow feel that logic is flawed. I mean, when you don't speak ill of the person in front of their faces just because you hate them, aren't you being nice? So, you'd rather someone just bitch about you in your face and make you feel terrible and nothing and their reason would be, "Oh because I hate you and everyone says it's better to be just upfront mean to the person you hate rather than keep everything to myself or talk about you with my friends." I mean, come on. Then again, being nice to someone when you hate him/her? Isn't that being hypocritical? So are you being the good or bad person here? Do you see my point!!! I am so confused. There's also that whole "Don't judge me because you don't know me" thing. Another thing I don't fully understand.... I mean so no one is ever wrong just because you don't know their "storyline''? So if like, someone is doing drugs and smoking and you would of course think badly of that person but people just walk around shoving this sentence in your face - "Oh don't judge him/her, she may be having family problems.... his dog may have died...." Or whatever reasons they can come with. So what are you supposed to do at this point? I don't get it, are you supposed to believe everyone doesn't actually mean to do what they're doing because you don't "know" them? I mean, come on. Family problems isn't even a proper excuse to do drugs. You can't tell the police that, doubt they would give you any sympathy. On the other hand, I really do find it very sympathy worthy..... so is what they are doing still wrong? Or correct? Do you see what I mean, everything is just so confusing and basically everything you're doing is just going to be wrong in some way. If everything you do is always wrong in someone's else eyes, then..........................
I don't know. Are you supposed to pretend that people who don't like you don't matter? I can't do that.
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